Not sure what to do next!

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Not sure what to do next!

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    NoOneMan
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    November 26, 2017 at 12:52 am #157357
    Not sure what to do next!

    I knew this girl who seemed to like me very much. She would always go out of her way to try and talk to me, and even referred to me as her man at one point as I was walking up. At first I didn’t feel anything for her and thought it was strange, but then I noticed that she would stare at me at work, and I ended up wanting to stare back until I eventually had to continue working. Anyway all of a sudden I felt nervous to be around her due to developing these new feelings for her. Well after a couple weeks she suddenly stopped showing up at my work. Turns out she had to go to the hospital and have surgery. I didn’t have her contact info so I found her facebook and sent her a message letting her know that I heard about her sudden hospital trip and asked if she was alright. She said she was okay but won’t be able to much till mid December. She doesn’t talk to me much, and I want to see her but I guess I’m afraid she may not actually like me, what should I do?

    • This topic was modified 3 weeks ago by  NoOneMan.

    Mamzi
    Participant
    November 26, 2017 at 7:03 pm #157383

    Is she still in hospital? You can offer visit her. If she is out, message her ask he show she is doing and if interested to meet. If she is interested, she will make an implication or say straightforward.


    NoOneMan
    Participant
    November 26, 2017 at 8:09 pm #157384

    Yes she’s out of the hospital, now I have a small update. So we spoke a little more and she told me she was going to see me at my work later in the week. So should I try to ask her out over message still or wait till I see her at work and ask her out somewhere? I always thought women didn’t like being asked out online?


    Alone247
    Participant
    November 27, 2017 at 8:49 am #157363

    Ask to visit her. Maybe she can’t move around alot and doesn’t want to burden noone. Surgery can be tricky. But You never know till u try


    Louis Richards
    Participant
    November 27, 2017 at 1:40 pm #157471

    Ask to visit her. Maybe she can’t move around alot and doesn’t want to burden noone. Surgery can be tricky. But You never know till u try

    Exactly