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    lauren52398
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    December 17, 2015 at 8:33 pm #90239
    obsessive crush

    im a 17 year old girl who does not have a lot of experience with dating. this obsessive crush started a few months ago with aboy in my gym class and it has completely taken over my life. the sad part is i have barely talked to him. i feel like he is interested too but he is shy like me so i dont know how to handle the situation. i switched out of my gym class so now i dont know how i could ever start talking to him because i only ever see him in the hallways. I also would like to point out that being around him makes me incredibly nervous. i realize that eye contact is a key technique in flirting but i even get too nervous to do that (i know, sad). a month ago my friend told him that i thought he was cute and ever since then he stares at me all the time so i know its not completely helpless. i overanalyze every encounter and find myself always daydreaming and its getting unhealthy. i really need advice bc this has taken a toll on my emotions. should i move on?


    Confusedgirl30
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    December 18, 2015 at 7:41 pm #90314

    Do u have mutual friends who talk to each other/hangout say at lunch or break? If so just tag along one time and simply observe how he acts with u their and then try a small chat about anything random or about something u know he likes/enjoys and see how he replies back to you.
    Whether he is still unsure how to talk to you or if he is comfortable with u as he is talking about something he enjoys.


    Anonymous
    December 19, 2015 at 1:22 pm #90317

    First love is fine
    be brave and speak with him
    and maybe you’ll be one pair