One month before I fly to see him, he asked me to postpone the trip.


One month before I fly to see him, he asked me to postpone the trip.

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    July 14, 2015 at 9:00 pm #82788
    One month before I fly to see him, he asked me to postpone the trip.

    So here’s the story.
    I’ve been in a long-distance relationship with this guy for over five years now. We live on the opposite side of the globe and we can only see each other once a year. The last time I saw him was last August. We’ve been talking about seeing each other for a long time now and finally I can make time fly to see him this summer. We even talked about booking flights last Monday, but when I asked him where to meet last Friday, he asked me to postpone the trip because he is looking for a new job and trying to relocate. He thinks it’s better that we wait till he settles down in the west coast. Of course I was upset because I couldn’t understand why the sudden change of attitude. He then said I was being selfish and melodramatic. Now he has not talked to me for 5 days now and I feel completely shut out. I don’t know what is going on. I am tormented…. 🙁

    July 15, 2015 at 9:28 am #82824

    Unless he has given you a reason not to trust him in the past, I would give him the benefit of the doubt and trust that what he is saying is true. I hope that you two can work this out.

    July 17, 2015 at 7:01 am #82968

    Try To Talk To Him About it after five years im sure he will understand u