online date: Should I Try for a second first date ?

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online date: Should I Try for a second first date ?

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    okcupid0627
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    September 23, 2015 at 8:21 pm #85843
    online date: Should I Try for a second first date ?

    Me and this woman are 29/30. I met her online a bit more than a month back. We texted quite a bit before we met (for 3 weeks and we both were out of town for work). We have similar interests. Our date went fine. We chatted for 3-4 hrs and had a few rounds of drinks. She was laughing etc, over it was a really pleasant “date”/meetup. We tight hugged each other and walked home. We said we would text each other soon. She added me on FB before we met as one of our text conversations brought it up. She doesnt use it much but still. I first thought it was weird but it didnt turn out to be that. I could sense that this could go a long way. She has alot of things I want in a woman. I texted her something that she is interested in. Half a day later she responded to my text and also said that she feels may not be an ideal match. I said was amazing and stay in touch if she feels like. She keeps “liking” some of my FB posts. I really want to ask her out again but should I after she rejected me ?


    okcupid0627
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    September 23, 2015 at 8:26 pm #85844

    My code says, never ask anyone twice once they say NO ! I move on. But this one feel different. Also this is an online dating environment. So please consider that. I am thinking of texting her in a few days to ask her for coffee to some place and mention “not as a date”. If she doesnt respond, I’ll have my answer. If she does and doesnt want to meet I’ll just politely say “if somehow to change your mind let me know” and I move on !

    Her FB likes are on things that she is interested in. So may be she is either being nice or she MAYBE is a tiny bit interested.

    I just want to know what approach should I take in this case. !!!