Opinions on Age Differences?

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Opinions on Age Differences?

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    Padme711
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    October 23, 2017 at 2:47 am #153677
    Opinions on Age Differences?

    We are both consenting adults, however we have 13 years between us. I’ve have never enjoyed my relationships with people who are younger or my age, and me and him just click, as cheesy as that sounds. All of my friends and people in my age group totally support it and understand it, however anyone in the older generations say they can’t get behind something like that. Wondering how others felt about age differences? I always say age is just a number, what about you?

    Thanks


    Austoow
    Participant
    October 25, 2017 at 1:01 pm #154019

    Hi. I and my husband are 14 years between us. I’m 34 Vietnamese woman and he’s 48 Australian man. We’ve been in marriage for 5 years but we just had sex for the first year as he isn’t interested in sex. I’m so desperate. That’s why I’m here to seek for advice but not allowed to create a new post unless I make 2 comments.

    Trumpetguy
    Trumpetguy
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    October 25, 2017 at 4:32 pm #154063

    I think it’s less about age as much as experience and mutual goals. We mature at different ages as well. I have a friend that is my age, 50, dating women in their 20s. I don’t endorse that because he has 2 x wives, 4 children, is not interested in marriage and more children. Typical women in that age bracket want both so he’s rather wasting their time. I on the other hand have neither and am open for marriage and children. I simply can’t relate to women my age, they typically are grandmothers and I have high energy, not at all winding down.


    summerlily72
    Participant
    October 28, 2017 at 4:27 am #154341

    It might feel big now but in years to come it wont


    LearningTheRopes00
    Participant
    October 28, 2017 at 5:23 am #154344

    in my opinion, you NEVER marry someone (legally) unless the sex relatsionship works. The old ways of marrying before sex is dumb! Why? Well through college experience, I was taught in psychology (by a highly experienced professional) that us humans have four primitive urges; thirst, hunger, SEX, love….notice how love an sex are separate. Yup, its our human nature to have sex! even if its without love. No doubt sex WITH love is AMAZING!


    Addisme
    Participant
    October 29, 2017 at 8:47 pm #154401

    I think you have to do what you feel is right. However I will tell you about a personal experience of mine. When I was 29 I tried dating an 19year old. We had the same friends, liked the same things, it seemed great. However he was very childish in alot that he did and it bothered me. There were no civilized talking out our problems, he was a child and couldn’t be adult bout any situation. There was a real lack of maturity. He was great time when it was all about fun but the second anything got serious it was another story. Being mature doesn’t always correlate with age, I know many men at 30 that act 15, but it’s something to think about. I would definitely go out on a few dates and see how it goes, it wont hurt anything to try.