Overlooked him – PLEASE HELP

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Overlooked him – PLEASE HELP

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    treish
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    November 29, 2012 at 1:16 am #17495
    Overlooked him – PLEASE HELP

    I was dating this guy about a year ago. I fell in love with him insistantly. I got scared ran away. He still asks about me, worried, thinks, and yells at me when im a idiot (in a best friend kinda way) He felt the same way he said. I think I’m the cause of him leaving Pa to move back home. I hurt him really bad.
    I left him got into a very dangerous relationship with the recent guy. I cried a few nights somehow pretended to forget about him. But He’d pop up at the most important parts of dangerous guy and i’s relationship. I Still love him. It hasnt faded at all.
    that was a simply over view of the situation.
    I – 21
    Dangerous guy – 22
    Overloooked guy – 26
    Heres my question.
    How do I tell him (it will have to be over the phone or FB) about my feelings and what happened?

    broomhilda
    broomhilda
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    November 29, 2012 at 3:10 pm #17678

    Not to be too harsh but sounds like you kinda messed this one up pretty bad. I would think Overlooked Guy fell for you too and is pretty upset with you. Why should he wait for YOU? He might find a girl who won’t kick him to the curb like that.

    Also, get away from Dangerous Guy. He’s obviously “dangerous” if that means physically or emotionally.

    If you really wanna try to get O.G. back then start by dumping the loser and restarting a friendship with your love. – goodluck

    Becky
    Becky
    Participant
    November 30, 2012 at 5:08 am #17721

    This is hard to hear. I had a very similar situation in my life, and I’m still not over it. I messed up really bad, and ruined the relationship I had with the love of my life. It’s been 3 years now, and I haven’t been able to date anyone else since. I’m over the fact that I lost a great guy, but I’m not over the fact of what I had done. It really eats me up inside thinking about it.

    I’ve finally gotten the courage to start dating again – I have my first date in 3 years since my last relationship this Saturday.

    carlycatz
    carlycatz
    Participant
    November 30, 2012 at 11:47 am #17780

    oh wow! Well that’s great you got to finally get out there!

    As for treish, get rid of the Dangerous Guy, not worth it