Passionate romance with poly guy just ended… Please help!


Passionate romance with poly guy just ended… Please help!

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    March 25, 2017 at 7:24 pm #131176
    Passionate romance with poly guy just ended… Please help!

    So, I met a guy on tinder 2 months ago. He was very open on the first date that he is polyamorous and likes to date several girls at one time. We get very drunk of the first date, and have great sex later that night. We continued to go on 4 dates in total, the 4th being last night. He’s been up and down in how often he texts me, one minute saying he’s very busy (but I knew he had been seeing other girls), one minute being very attentive. He told me he had described our sex as ‘mind blowing’ and ‘glorious’.
    Tonight he texts me, saying “Hey hun, I’ve had an awesome time with you these past few weeks. However I don’t think our connection is quite right. I don’t think we should see each other anymore. I hope this doesn’t upset you too much. Take care xx’
    What does this mean?? He said our sex was amazing.. what’s the problem? I think he may have started to notice that I liked him a lot… and maybe he knows I’m too into it? I don’t get it… please help!

    March 29, 2017 at 6:44 pm #131542

    What happened is he is a player. Sorry. Honest answer from a woman who has been in the poly community for 15+ years.

    He likes sleeping with women without strings. So he says he’s poly, gets what he wants, and reaps none of the consequences (or benefits) of having an actual relationship with any of the women he’s intimate with. He’s already moved onto the next girl and probably won’t think of you for weeks or months. Be prepared for a “booty call” type text about 6-8 months from now, when he’s bored again.