Please help, I don’t understand this

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Please help, I don’t understand this

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    Jevise
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    October 22, 2017 at 4:33 pm #153664
    Please help, I don’t understand this

    So have this female friend, who was with one of her friends a few days ago. I and this female friend were snap chatting and she mentioned that this friend of hers thought I was handsome. So I added her on snapchat because I also thought she was cute. So the last few days I have been trying to start a conversation with her but she takes super long to reply and when she replies it is mostly with only a few words. Normally I would think that this means she is just not into me and I should just stop trying because she clearly doesn’t want me to. The thing is that she does send me a lot of selfies and stuff which you wouldn’t send to someone you aren’t at least interested in…

    What should I do? Because having conversations with 2hrs between every 2-5 words long message isn’t really getting me anywhere, though I do want to get to know her.


    rich1001
    Participant
    October 22, 2017 at 11:49 pm #153672

    girls are such flakes on their phone it’s hard to understand it…and it sucks because its your main way to communicate with them. best way i think is to just flat out ask her out on a fun date/group hangout idea…firm dates and times…be confident. it could even be something like ‘hey i heard this ice cream shop’s cookie dough is redic! want to check it out with me?” if she wants to see you you will know. waiting sucks but there isn’t much you can do. the only way to start a real relationship of any kind is in person. ifshe doenst respond it probably has nothing to do with you…she could be distracted by 1000 things and also have 10 other guys hitting her up just like you. just be yourself, be confident, don’t text too much, and dont come off as needy!


    sasha.bells
    Participant
    October 24, 2017 at 4:18 pm #153893

    Hello, sounds like you need to make a move….she may think that you don’t like her as much as she likes you….ask her out on a date and see where that leads you.