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    shanu7398
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    April 21, 2015 at 7:30 am #77618
    plz help me

    After my break up 1 month ago i decided to have a casual dating after i realised that being serious with a girl is not productive at the age of 17… Usually my mindset is that when i feel i love a girl, it is confirmed by my being serious with her and all that die for her things. Yesterday i went on a short trip with my parents and family friends. There was this girl who is the daughter of my mother’s friend. I dont know why kept thinking of her the whole trip.. I couldnt get my mind off her. I started imagining romantic things with her even when my mind knew that it wasnt right. It has happened to me in the past as well. I know that i dont wanna get serious with anyone from now. But my mind thinks otherwise. What should i do to overcome my mentality. Btw if u think of casual datingmm i really wont date the girl im mentioning but true love doesnt see any features. So if u tell my other mind to love her till death it would be damn easy.. im thinking of her all the time plz help me


    shanu7398
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    April 21, 2015 at 7:35 am #77619

    Extra: if im attracted to a girl sexually i usually masturbate. But i never do think of it to a girl i love. So when my mind says no to thinking about the girl during masturbation.. It makes me think i love her. I never imagine romantic things with a girl im sexually attracted to.. I only dp so with the girl my mind thinks i love..


    shanu7398
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    April 21, 2015 at 8:15 am #77620

    I wanna get get rid of this get serious mindset… Coz i have many experienced many failures with that.. I dont know why im thinking about her all the time. My mindset of getting serious has led me to many heartbreaks. So i wanna avoid getting serious at my age.. And the girl is 14 years old and she doesnt have a cellphone and not a fb account. Even if i consider dating this girl its difficult. I wanna move on. Plz help me. Plz tell me i dont love this girl