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post 1st date screw up…is it fixable? What should I do?

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    hdiaz
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    August 18, 2014 at 9:43 am #59547
    post 1st date screw up…is it fixable? What should I do?

    So I met this girl on an online dating site.We got to talking, and exchanged numbers.We texted for almost two weeks(I was out of the country)before we finally met up for the first date.
    We went for a bite,kept her laughing the whole time we were at the restaurant. We made a good connection here. Then we went to the ferris wheel (she loved this) and then went to a park to just hang by the lake and look at the city skyline. We made out, and there also was a lot of touching on both parts. took her home was around 1am(Sat) and I had picked her up at 7 on Friday night.
    I texted her on Sat evening,she took longer than usual to reply and so I did the same. We texted back and forth until she fell asleep,I texted her good night sweet dreams.
    The next morn(Sun) she text me apologizing for falling asleep. Later that day I asked her if she’d like to hang out and smoke on Fri.She said she has plans and that she doesn’t know me well enough. The convo was dying off so I said I was going sleep.


    lovebug1
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    August 20, 2014 at 3:03 am #59700

    First things first. What do you mean by smoke on Friday? Or is that a typo?


    lovebug1
    Participant
    August 20, 2014 at 3:06 am #59701

    And if you did mean smoke, smoke what?


    Grace916
    Participant
    August 20, 2014 at 9:51 pm #59761

    Yeah, all seemed decently understandable until you asked her to smoke. If you all smoked on your other date then maybe that’s understandable? But even still, that’s not really the way to a lady’s heart. She could also have been trying to sort through moving so fast with you.

    tuna1987
    tuna1987
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    August 21, 2014 at 12:08 pm #59785

    move on find another date I guess


    MaydayFate
    Participant
    August 21, 2014 at 2:09 pm #59804

    Just ask her if she plans to get to know you better? No point in trying if you don’t know if she’s interested

    cooleyes30
    cooleyes30
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    August 21, 2014 at 4:40 pm #59837

    Be honest and ask her would she like to see you again

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