Pre-Date (but not a date) advice!


Pre-Date (but not a date) advice!

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    November 16, 2017 at 4:07 pm #156687
    Pre-Date (but not a date) advice!

    I’m a 22 year old guy. I’ve been talking to some old friends and most of us haven’t seen each other in 8-10 year (since we moved up to high school). We organised a reunion for tomorrow night (there’s 5 of us) but all but 1 girl, who’s single, has cancelled. I thought sod it and asked her if she wanted to go out just the 2 of us and she said yes! So we are going for a few drinks after not seeing each other for years!

    Now I think she’s pretty cute and we’ve been a little flirty over Facebook messagenger (which she didn’t pick up on straight away). We might not even get on after so long without talking, but my question is, if we do get on do I make a move on her or should I focus on rebuilding a ‘friendship’ at first and then ask her out again?

    November 16, 2017 at 7:52 pm #156718

    I would see how the night pans put for you. She how she responds to you and how engaging she is in her mannerism and conversation. If it feels right and you want to kiss her at the end of the night then do it. You can still build a relationship after a kiss. Play it by ear and see how comfortable you both are face to face.