Proposed to a stranger and got blocked

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Proposed to a stranger and got blocked

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    new1804
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    July 18, 2017 at 8:44 am #142431
    Proposed to a stranger and got blocked

    Hi
    I am located and living outside of the US but just by chance got to know a woman over the internet some 6 years ago and gradually developed interest in her. I got to know more and more about her until some months ago after 6 years of knowing her I really felt I have fell for her. It hit a point where I happened to think about her hours per day and started having severe depression. After months and months of consideration, one day I just broke into tears and started crying thinking of her. I decided to make a move and discuss the whole thing with her. Just to surprise her I left a message on her Instagram account and proposed to her as a stranger. I asked her will you marry me and she responded by almost immediately blocking me. I am really confused and have no idea what to do. This is a girl who has occupied my mind all the day and I really can not cut it out from the other side she blocked me the meaning of which is very clear. Shall I try to contact her again?


    evn95
    Participant
    July 18, 2017 at 9:29 am #142435

    Maybe try proposing as yourself? I don’t know any woman who would accept a strangers proposal over instagram. Just talk to her like you normally would


    new1804
    Participant
    July 18, 2017 at 9:34 am #142436

    Do you think I should contact her again? I really love her to death and have never felt this way toward any woman in my life. I cry everyday just remembering her. Should I open another account and send another message? That wouldn’t be rude or in appropriate?

    richiro
    richiro
    Participant
    July 18, 2017 at 12:56 pm #142479

    its very obvious. everyting you talk about when it comes to you two is from YOUR END. Your thoughts. what YOU want. Not once did you ever talk about or mentione anything from HER side that says she was feeling the same or wanted the same. Therefore this was all in your head and your head only. To propose based on that, when youv’e never met or made plans to meet in person justifiably gets an immediate block from anybody.

    It’s just creepy.

    Have a real relationships first.. not a fantasy in your head before you propose next time.


    new1804
    Participant
    July 19, 2017 at 9:15 am #142486

    Tnx for your advice. You are totally right. All my personal fantasy. But I got to know her for 6 years while she does not know me. Over the course of 6 years I became more and more attracted to her until I totally fell for her. Given what she did I really don’t know what possible ways do exist for me to contact her and express it to her. Do you think given that block its justified for me to try to recontact her?