putting a relationship back together…

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putting a relationship back together…

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    mark888
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    March 16, 2018 at 3:09 am #167468
    putting a relationship back together…

    I had an intense online relationship with a girl for 6 months. We were very close and had plane tickets to meet in Miami. Something happened where I wasn’t able to mssg her on facebook so we communicated through google hangouts. Then, I went on facebook to check my other mssgs, and her account said she had been online that morning but had not replied to my mssgs over on hangouts. I brought this up to her and I got accused of disrespecting her. I apologized, and reached out two more times over the week. I saw where she had seen my mssgs but didnt respond. So. I stopped. 6 months later, I looked up her twitter and saw “memes” that referred to somebody ignoring and not talking to her. Maybe those were intended for me… maybe not. I dunno. I have a gut feeling that she might reach out. And if she does, I am just afraid all of our ‘magic” has been lost. I miss her, but I don’t know if we could ever be the same after so much time and pain. Any thoughts?


    frandollow
    Participant
    March 16, 2018 at 8:03 am #167472

    No better thoughts about this. But wish you all the best and meet you GF asap.


    mark888
    Participant
    March 16, 2018 at 4:23 pm #167491

    I know that people put marriages and relationships back together after things waaaaay worse than this argument that leads to a stand-off. I am just not sure I understand how things can really be the same. I messed up and I OWN that and I apologized. but if this was a preview of things to come… how would we ever survive something significant?