AnonymousApril 24, 2017 at 11:10 am #134150
I’ve been dating a woman for 9 months and she says we are “more than dating” which I agree. We spend several nights together weekly, agree we’re in love and tell each other, spend holidays together -you get the picture.
The issue I have is she has multiple former lovers on her Facebook, one that comments on her posts. Should I insist she terminate these guys or am I overreacting?
richiroParticipantApril 24, 2017 at 11:49 am #134168
no. unless there is strong and clear evidence/observations that she is cheating on you – no.
however, you can ask for clarification if you want if “more than dating” means you are “exlusive” (just for clarification).
from her answer you’ll know what those other ex’s are and are not to her today.
i am friends with my ex’s (and we’re not romanticlly involved). i would not be okay with any new gf telling me who i can keep as friends and talk to or not unless it was obvious an ex- was being disruptive to our new relationship. so unless they’re being disruptive – no you can’t or shouldn’t.
jungleboy247ParticipantApril 24, 2017 at 5:15 pm #134258
Women always have a plan B, who do you think will “give a friendly shoulder” when you have an argument with her? Man up and tell her she is commited and must stop this nonsense ASAP.
KizarayParticipantMay 3, 2017 at 5:35 pm #135348
No it is fine for her to keep those past people on her facebook. Just because they are facebook friends doesn’t mean she is fucking them or even talking to them. Its almost like an acknowledgement to the fact that they knew each other. Think about your facebook friends. how many of them do you actually talk to regularly?
jlacckParticipantMay 3, 2017 at 10:39 pm #135361
You have to be careful about being insecure on facebook. it can really lead to some issues and challenges in relationships.
aleenaParticipantMay 4, 2017 at 5:54 am #135363
no boy you can carry on and appreciate to her … because she loves you in real then you don’t take any tension from her side. thank you
anonymousParticipantMay 4, 2017 at 6:34 pm #135461
Depends on the types of comments. If the comments bother you or her, you should tell her your opinion.
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