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leocarterParticipantNovember 23, 2014 at 8:25 pm #67996
I’m in a confusing situation. I’ve been chatting with a guy (“Ted”) on a gay social networking site for about a year, except for when I took a 4-month break from social media. During the break, I met a guy (“Bill”) in real life and we started dating. I was sure I’d told Ted about Bill. Two months ago, Ted asked to meet for coffee and I agreed, thinking he meant as friends. He thought we were on a date, was hurt and upset, and told me he had feelings for me. I apologized, but made it clear there we weren’t going to get together. Then I told Bill about it, and he broke up with me. It’s been six weeks, and Ted suggested having coffee as friends. I think he still has feelings for me. Ted’s smart, kind and cute, but I might or might not end up having feelings for him. I don’t want to hurt him again, I don’t want it to look like I was looking for another boyfriend while still with Bill, and I’m really busy with work right now. But I at least want to keep chatting with Ted online. What to do?
BrolindavidorParticipantNovember 24, 2014 at 1:18 pm #68031
I think you should take some time off and do you. Meanwhile you will find out what you really want and hey you might even get back with your ex.
throwaway__900ParticipantNovember 24, 2014 at 11:09 pm #68122
Just be honest with both of them. Tell them everything you just said. And take a break.
AnonymousJanuary 5, 2015 at 3:41 pm #69918
Agreed!! Throwaway__900 be honest & forthright as you can, then back off from both. Date yourself….
whaleman12ParticipantJanuary 5, 2015 at 6:28 pm #69934
just be honest you have alot going on right now
PrincessSoloParticipantJanuary 21, 2015 at 1:05 pm #71353
I would try to stay friends with Ted and not completely rule that option out but in the meantime take a break to get your head right.
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