Really confusing situation


Really confusing situation

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    November 23, 2014 at 8:25 pm #67996
    Really confusing situation

    I’m in a confusing situation. I’ve been chatting with a guy (“Ted”) on a gay social networking site for about a year, except for when I took a 4-month break from social media. During the break, I met a guy (“Bill”) in real life and we started dating. I was sure I’d told Ted about Bill. Two months ago, Ted asked to meet for coffee and I agreed, thinking he meant as friends. He thought we were on a date, was hurt and upset, and told me he had feelings for me. I apologized, but made it clear there we weren’t going to get together. Then I told Bill about it, and he broke up with me. It’s been six weeks, and Ted suggested having coffee as friends. I think he still has feelings for me. Ted’s smart, kind and cute, but I might or might not end up having feelings for him. I don’t want to hurt him again, I don’t want it to look like I was looking for another boyfriend while still with Bill, and I’m really busy with work right now. But I at least want to keep chatting with Ted online. What to do?

    November 24, 2014 at 1:18 pm #68031

    I think you should take some time off and do you. Meanwhile you will find out what you really want and hey you might even get back with your ex.

    November 24, 2014 at 11:09 pm #68122

    Just be honest with both of them. Tell them everything you just said. And take a break.

    January 5, 2015 at 3:41 pm #69918

    Agreed!! Throwaway__900 be honest & forthright as you can, then back off from both. Date yourself….

    January 5, 2015 at 6:28 pm #69934

    just be honest you have alot going on right now

    January 21, 2015 at 1:05 pm #71353

    I would try to stay friends with Ted and not completely rule that option out but in the meantime take a break to get your head right.

    January 29, 2015 at 6:17 pm #72222

    Honesty with both is always the best policy

    February 8, 2015 at 5:04 pm #72843

    yeah i think a break definitely would do the situation the best.