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    cfd2016
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    July 15, 2016 at 12:05 pm #105345
    Really could use some advice

    So I met this girl at a bar about a month or so ago. I knew this girl from my past but never really talked to her. Anyways it went real well we talked for an hour or two and surprisingly she gave me her number. Now I was trying take it slow giver her space but I waited too long. She is in New York for the rest of the summer now. I tried to ask to hangout before she left but she was real busy. Anyways I still text here and there every few days and she always text me back but the conversations don’t last that long. Anyways I’m wondering if I should asks where me and her stand? I don’t want to do it in a creepy way. I just want to be like “hey when you get back are you gonna be interested in getting to know me better because I would like to get to you know you more. I’m not sure if she will find this creepy or she’ll be upfront with me. Any ideas or thoughts???


    Anonymous
    July 15, 2016 at 4:13 pm #105393

    Wait!!! Talk to her over the summer here and there-why not flirt??? But how can she say she would be interested in getting to know you when it’s a few months away??? Most people don’t know what they are eating for dinner! Help her get comfortable with you. Add in a little flirting here and there so she can sense that you might be interested in her. Then wait until she gets back and just ask her out. You only had 1 conversation! If you had gone out a few times and you know she liked you-that’s a different story-but since you guys have not spent any time together…it’s a little much to ask if she would be interested in getting to know you in a few months. You can avoid the “friend zone” by making sure you flirt with her….give her some compliments here and there….friends don’t do that with each other. See if she even responds back by flirting with you in return. Either way…I would say to stay in contact, flirt, have fun and then when she gets back, decide then what to do


    cfd2016
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    July 15, 2016 at 5:57 pm #105423

    Any suggestions I’m not the greatest texter which is part of the reason I’d like to know if this is going anywhere before I say too much dumb stuff