Really need some advice from a woman or an experienced fellow

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Really need some advice from a woman or an experienced fellow

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    thatguy218
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    November 15, 2015 at 6:44 pm #88498
    Really need some advice from a woman or an experienced fellow

    So I work with a girl that I think is just awesome. We have a lot in common, on many levels. Im going to be a little specific and I’m hoping to get a woman’s view or maybe a guys who has been through something similar.

    She has a few kids, which I think is awesome because I’m sure she mature, but there’s her ex… He’s not a good person at all and in my previous experience with this kind of situation gets me in big trouble, but she obviously still lives him. I don’t condemn her for that at all, considering their children, but I don’t want to go all out for her just to have her go back. We talk every morning and recently she’s been going out of her way to talk to ‘just’ me. Last Friday we actually texted back and forth throughout the day, kinds awesome.

    I honestly enjoy spending time and talking to her, never felt like that before… I’m not exactly the best with women but i don’t want to ask her out and it be a “no” because it’ll make work awkward and bad. I really like my job.


    thatguy218
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    November 15, 2015 at 6:47 pm #88499

    I really need some help here. Also, sorry about the spelling, my phone is off.

    girlinquiring
    girlinquiring
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    November 15, 2015 at 9:41 pm #88500

    I think you should just ask her out.

    There is absolutely no harm in asking. If she says “no” I honestly can’t imagine it creating any issues other than a few days of silence between the two of you, but if anything she’d be flattered you were thinking of asking her out.

    Also, as you were texting all day Friday, that’s a good indication that she is interested as most people tend not to text often with people that are just acquaintances.

    As for the dating aspect, if you do end up dating. There is a lot that entails dating a woman with children. Her ex shouldn’t be an issue unless she lets him be or he makes himself one.

    Goodluck!

    -M