Rebound crush or something real?

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Rebound crush or something real?

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    lalakerochan
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    September 30, 2013 at 11:47 pm #40246
    Rebound crush or something real?

    To keep it short.
    I was dating boyfriend. During this period, I had a little girl crush on her and we flirted very innocently.
    I broke up with boyfriend. I talk to her about it and we are in very deep conversation about life and stuff and depression which i promised to try to drag her out of. Notice the word try. I’ve been there, done that.
    Here’s my predicament, is this my motherly instinct,a rebound crush, or an actual love? I want to make sure because I don’t want to hurt her like 2 of her friends did to her in the past.

    Advice? Clarifications

    ghostbusterbill
    ghostbusterbill
    Participant
    October 16, 2013 at 10:29 am #41266

    i don’t think you’ll know what it is until you give it more time. Have you ever had these feelings before?

    JojoMojo
    JojoMojo
    Participant
    October 16, 2013 at 10:39 am #41298

    First of all, thanks for saying “To Keep it short” and then actually keeping it short!

    Secondly, I agree with Bill … you’ll just have to give it more time in order to sort out the emotions involved. Spend some more time with her and see how it goes.

    MindFreak
    MindFreak
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    November 7, 2013 at 9:03 am #41340

    I would spend some more time with her, and see how it goes. It’s too early to really tell. Best of luck to you!


    crushingconfessions
    Participant
    April 21, 2015 at 10:27 pm #77699

    I think its in our womenly nature to want to take care and fix other peoples problems. I belive you genuinely care for this girl but you may feel like you can cure her out of her depression.