Rekindling a long lost love, Help me!


Rekindling a long lost love, Help me!

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    September 12, 2014 at 12:49 pm #61879
    Rekindling a long lost love, Help me!

    Theres a girl that I was semi romantically linked to back in college, but the timing was never right (I liked her, she had a boyfriend, they broke up, she fell for me,I was over her,we graduated and moved apart) Really poor timing and maneuvering on both our parts. Its been about three years, since we last saw each other. We recently got together to catch up with another friend of ours from college(her current roommate actually) and now I cant stop thinking about how perfect I think we might have been together. She remains my version of the perfect girl.
    The issue I have is; we live about 30-45 mins apart, is that too far? Is there a chance for us still even with distance and years of not really seeing or talking to each other? When we got together it was almost like no time had passed at all, but I still have these qualms that I’ll look foolish or desperate. I want to text her asking, “Do you think there is still a chance for us?” Is that an okay thing to ask a girl in my situation?

    September 13, 2014 at 11:08 am #61913

    If you think she’s perfect for you, 30-45 minutes is most definitely not too far. It’s only too far if you let it be far. The best and longest relationship I had started with a girl who was an hour away from me. 30-45 mins is nothing, and if it’s really great with her, you do what I did and move closer to her.

    Finally, if you think she’s perfect for you, who cares if you look foolish or desperate? I wouldn’t even ask her if she thinks there’s still a chance for you. It sounds like there is. Ask her out.

    September 15, 2014 at 8:45 am #61925

    30-45 minutes is nothing. That’s 15-23 minutes if you meet in the middle. I don’t have a car and walk 15 minutes to work everyday, and 20 to the nearest grocery store. Imagine if I thought that was too far to go for food?

    And I’d go way further for a relationship.

    September 16, 2014 at 9:43 am #62020

    Of course you have a chance. The main thing is not to lose it. There are couples who become together again after 15 years. Do you want to wait so long?
    Then tell her about your feelings now.