Relationship help!! Need advice

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Relationship help!! Need advice

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    juliaxxxo
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    February 21, 2017 at 4:55 pm #127729
    Relationship help!! Need advice

    I’ve been with this guy for 4 years also living together for almost 4. In the beginning the relationship wasn’t great until 6 months later. I found body rub links in his web history. Prior to this found an actual website on phone. I took his word for it and didn’t let it bother me until I saw him on the comp watching porn. A year later relationship got worse and he has always been yelling off top of lungs for anything where neighbors even hear it. Around this time he also put his hands on me multiple time and very verbally abusive. Always blaming me. He’s lied to me about many things. A year ago we took molly together I took 4, splitting each when I started coming down and was fine until I started drinking wine. He def put something in thewinWhen I drank wine I started getting dizzy and like I was gonna fall asleep then out of nowhere I started panicking felt like I had a heart attack or was about to die. Few months later I woke up with panic attack (never had anxiety issues or panic).


    juliaxxxo
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    February 22, 2017 at 8:50 am #127730

    And after that night of waking up from a panic attack I have been having anxiety issues. I sometimes have anxiety almost everyday. He is always blaming me for the problems in the relationship and also yelling over anything like if I have to work on weekends or if I want to start taking Brazilian jiu jitsu or something I enjoy doing, there is a problem. We broke up a few times where he kicked me out even tho I pay rent in his house and cook, clean and do laundry for him. All he doesn’t is sit home, smoke weed all day, work on reports for work and occasionally goes to work. He doesn’t help me with any of the cooking or cleaning. He is also always telling me that I use him and it’s all my fault. I tried leaving him but couldn’t. It’s very hard to get out of a situation like this and am afraid he wil find someone else. is it normal for him to act the way he does? Could it possibly be me with certain little things I’ve done which weren’t so bad? And what advice can you give me!! Please help