Sad state of affairs


Sad state of affairs

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    February 4, 2017 at 4:34 am #125721
    Sad state of affairs

    I recently started seeing this new girl, had a second date after the first which went well.

    The second date went pretty well.

    So afterwards she said to me that really enjoyed my company and she felt that it was a more platonic feeling as opposed to the first date which she felt what was more romantic, what did i think? I was floored. I’ve never had anyone be that direct with me-i was lost for words. Then she said message me about it.

    I would message her but I don’t even know what to say or even do. The only thing i can think to message her is saying to leave at platonic as i’ve no idea what to say or do.

    I do realise that this makes me sounds pretty pathetic and weak and i’m just quite generally annoyed and frustrated with myself.

    Any advice/thoughts is appreciated.

    February 4, 2017 at 7:35 pm #125732

    I feel ya. A lady has recently done that to me. I don’t and really can’t understand why. The best advice I could give for u about this to do wat u said. Leave it as just friends.

    February 5, 2017 at 2:36 pm #125754

    I’m baffled.

    How can the date have “went well”, if she friendzoned you? Makes no sense.

    What did you do on these dates? Did anything sexual happen?

    Any date where you aren’t getting any did not “go well”. Not from any sort of perspective at all.

    And that’s the only reason I can see for the confusion.