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izziebusyParticipantDecember 12, 2016 at 5:35 pm #119890
I’ve been seeing this guy for just under two months in which we spend a lot of time with each other, on nights out/afterwards and staying in, even though we labelled it ‘casual’. We were also really good friends before and didn’t realise that we both fancied each other until the night we first kissed.However he is going on a year abroad next year, and after not telling me how he felt I assumed he was trying to cut me off after not replying to texts/ignoring me. But after a chat, he said he tried to not talk to me is because he likes me a lot and if he wasn’t going away, he could see us going somewhere. So by not talking, it was his way of stopping himself from catching feelings. I know we both like each other and get on like a house on fire but we decided to try be friends to avoid heartbreak. But this week, we kissed again for the 1st time in weeks and it was electric. The whole night we were flirting and getting on, just like a couple would do. He was affectionate! I need help!
- This topic was modified 1 year, 1 month ago by izziebusy.
josephddiazzParticipantDecember 28, 2016 at 10:34 am #121221
I would recommend you to just live in the moment! Enjoy what you guys have now… Worry about the year abroad later!
superconfusedParticipantDecember 29, 2016 at 11:54 am #121274
If you like him then be with him and cherish your time together.
luffbug04ParticipantJanuary 3, 2017 at 9:05 pm #121564
I agree with the above. If you two like each other so much then give it a try. You’ll always regret not trying but if you try and it doesn’t work at least you have it a chance. It will be hard but you sound like you like each other enough to try and figure out how to make it work. Don’t give up
Jooles95ParticipantJanuary 7, 2017 at 4:33 pm #122139
If there is so much chemistry, and you guys click so well, then I’d say go for it – you two could have something amazing, and you will never know unless you give it a chance. If by the time he has to leave your relationship is worth it, it will survive the year abroad, and you both will come out stronger as a couple.
sofie21ParticipantJanuary 9, 2017 at 7:21 am #122182
i say enjoy each other, year is nothing, if you guys do really like/love each other test of time should be no problem.
carol1973ParticipantJanuary 10, 2017 at 12:54 am #122363
Live in the moment and encourage him to do the same. If it’s meant to be, you’ll end up
Md. Al Nahian KhanParticipantJanuary 10, 2017 at 4:36 am #122371
If you guys love each other then I think this is not a big problem, enjoy Your :Life. Carry on..
ambersmith00ParticipantJanuary 10, 2017 at 10:14 am #122397
I agree with the others. I sabotaged a past relationship similar to yours by being anxious and worried about the future. I’d have done things way differently now and simply enjoy the moment.
Sam9811ParticipantJanuary 12, 2017 at 12:20 pm #122782
It sounds like you guys would hit it off great. I would say try it and see what happens.
richiroParticipantJanuary 18, 2017 at 11:18 pm #123626
yeah i agree.. just enjoy until he comes back from abroad.. DON’T HOLD YOUR BREATH OR EXPECT ANYTHING when he comes back. then just deal with it then when you catch up after he comes back (keeping in mind that he COULD meet somebody there…)
its best to keep this all in check and keep it to the “fun only” side for now.
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