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topbanana

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September 6, 2017 at 10:31 pm #148402

Second chances?

we hung out a few times but never really called it dating because of college this fall. so we just kinda liked each other and that was that. in the spring things got a little more flirty and serious. until i found out he’d been dating this girl since february. he “fell in love with her at first sight.” but he still liked me. so i told him to pick, he wouldn’t, so i picked for him. he dated her and we stopped talking.

until last night.

i texted him and he almost immediately called me. it got kinda flirty, and i said, “stop, what are we doing. you have a girlfriend and we’ve been through this already.” so he proceeded to tell me he broke up with her because he couldn’t stop thinking about me. he wanted me. the whole time. i didn’t know what to say.

Two problems: 1. I don’t know if I miss him or the idea of him. 2. My friends and family all think I’d be dumb to go back.

Thoughts?

JessicaJones55

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September 7, 2017 at 7:15 pm #148550

Leave it alone. You have now made the first move, he’s expressed that you were the one all along – now let him make that dream a reality. If that is really the case, he will put action behind his words. Step aside and let him do the work.

Gengustave

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September 9, 2017 at 7:44 pm #148675

hi i am new here

new to dating

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September 9, 2017 at 10:49 pm #148678

if hes not willing to make u a number one priority in your life why bother for second best, not worth it your better than than that

new to dating

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September 9, 2017 at 10:50 pm #148679

new to dating wrote:

if hes not willing to make u a number one priority in your life why bother for second best, not worth it your better than than that

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