Second Date Flake or I Did Something Wrong

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Second Date Flake or I Did Something Wrong

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    Paul
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    April 10, 2016 at 3:10 am #97408
    Second Date Flake or I Did Something Wrong

    After a few meetings at a shop where she worked, I hinted her attraction level was high, so once I got her number, I instantly asked her out the same day & she agreed.
    That evening she waited as I was 30 mins late, took her to 3 different places, had a lovely dinner where she was amazed by my magic tricks & the people being very nice to me (I took my dates there, that’s why) & sent her to her friend’s house by 11:30pm where she had sleep-over plans originally. Her friend giggled when she got off the car – it was awkward to kiss her. The date lasted 5 hours.


    Paul
    Participant
    April 10, 2016 at 3:10 am #97409

    I texted later that I hadn’t heard from her so I went on but would just make it up to her next time. I didn’t mention I proceeded with another girl I have been hooking up with for sometime – ’twas the same girl she mentioned she’d once seen in my car when I went to the shop.

    I radio-silenced. After 2 weeks she texted she’d finished reading the book. I called her the next morning & arranged for a “definite” date. She sounded very excited asking me where we were going as I told her to bring her fave head cap & sunglasses. The 2nd date was set 7 days away.

    I did what a relationship expert said that after setting a date, inorder to create more attraction/excitement, avoid contact ’til the day of the date. That day, I waited at the supposed rendezvous. I got a no show! I called but no answer, so I texted with polite messages later.

    She’s 19, pretty, deep-thought & social media icon. I’m in my 30’s w/ a busy career.

    Any thoughts?


    trevjim
    Participant
    April 10, 2016 at 7:18 am #97416

    it sounds like immaturity on her behalf, I have girls flake on me and nearly all of them are 19-21. thats not to say all girls that age are immature of course, but at that age, they are not experienced enough to communicate


    Paul
    Participant
    April 10, 2016 at 4:48 pm #97419

    it sounds like immaturity on her behalf, I have girls flake on me and nearly all of them are 19-21. thats not to say all girls that age are immature of course, but at that age, they are not experienced enough to communicate

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    So how did you approach this situation?