Second date flake, try again?

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Second date flake, try again?

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    just_chilling7089
    Participant
    August 12, 2014 at 8:16 pm #59315
    Second date flake, try again?

    Online dating-

    Backstory – texting has been horrible the whole time, very delayed responses, I didn’t think we were on for the first date until SHE confirmed the morning of.

    The first date went really well (one week ago) and SHE wanted to meet up the next day. I made plans to do so but she flaked with a reasonable reason and didn’t offer to reschedule. I asked if she wanted to go out another time but I didn’t get a response from her after that.

    5 days later I decided to send her what’s up and ask her how things are. She responded a couple hours later and made an attempt to continue the conversation. I responded once and didn’t hear back.

    What’s my next move? Should I ask for that second date again or just delete her number and move on to the next one? Am I over analyzing the situation and not catching on that shes not interested?


    markduplass
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    August 13, 2014 at 11:15 am #59329

    Well if she wanted to go out again then she must have been interested in you because then she would probably just try to divert conversations for a second date to another topic. If she flaked on the second date with a good reason then it’s okay. However, my advice is to give her 3 chances…only if you’re really interested in her. Try to have some more conversations with her and she now she acts. Call her on the phone even and just talk to her. If she’s interested then she’ll want to talk and if not then she’ll probably just ignore you and then you can just move on. Try texting her again and maybe bring up the thought of going out. See what she says.