Seeing my football team mates ex. But me and him only see each other during game

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Seeing my football team mates ex. But me and him only see each other during game

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    maxsoccercont
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    December 26, 2016 at 6:02 am #121060
    Seeing my football team mates ex. But me and him only see each other during game

    So recently I went to a party where my team mates ex was. They had been broken up for a month or so. Myself and her had a lot to drink, she saw her ex there and as we were catching the same train home I looked after her. We ended up kissing. Prior to this I hadn’t seen or spoke to her for about four months. The next day I felt guilty, wanted to tell him. She wanted to see me again, so I called her explaining how I feel because I play football with him. Turns out during their relationship he cheated on her. She gave him another chance but said it was a desperate effort, no trust. The day after our phone call, we met up and jus talked through things for a while, we ended up kissing again. We told each other everything, I saw her the next night and just sat under the stars, talking again enjoying each others company.
    Where I am conflicted,, is should I explain myself/ the situation to my team mate, even though we’re not that close and he treated his gf at the time wrong?
    Thanks