Sexless marriage.

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Sexless marriage.

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    Austoow
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    October 25, 2017 at 1:39 pm #154022
    Sexless marriage.

    Hi all. I’m new to this forum. I’m 34yo Vietnamese woman and my husband is 48yo Australian man. We’ve been in marriage for 5 years but we just had sex for the first year. The following years we probably have had sex for 3-4 times per year. The reason is he isn’t interested in sex. Sometimes when he wants sex, he drags me out but if I don’t want it, he’ll stop and won’t do it for months. He used to see the doctor when we first married but what he got was just a Viagra. We also talked about this but nothing is solved. He thinks nothing wrong and doesn’t want to talk about it. I’m so sad and desperate. We have a lot of arguments lately and it seems bigger everyday. Sometimes I want to have an affair but I couldn’t do it. I don’t want to leave him either. Overall he’s a good man. Is there anyone out there in the same situation? Please share your experience and advice. Thanks in advance.

    Trumpetguy
    Trumpetguy
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    October 26, 2017 at 9:13 am #154083

    I’m new here as well, day one, and see this is not a very active forum at all, new forums take time to get going. I can attest with my past experience, I was with a gal that I didn’t find attractive, she was very overweight, did not bother to make herself presentable at all, and I wasn’t interested in sex with her due to that, combined with she was just using me just to get off, so not what I considered making love. I see a lot of couples where one or both let them selves go because they stopped trying to impress each other and keep each other enticed towards each other. I’m the type that likes my women to get dolled up, or at least make some kind of effort, some men don’t care so much, but that’s typically them saying they don’t but secretly they do. There is an art to seduction that also can get lost after the marriage, or something that never was learned in the first place.

    That to the side, too often it’s the case the guy is into porn, that ruins a healthy sex life too.