Sexual Tension

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Sexual Tension

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    Stuckinthemud
    Participant
    July 22, 2014 at 12:31 pm #57945
    Sexual Tension

    So I really like this girl, we’ve hung out alone together twice now and we’ve been up till 6am the next day talking and hanging out. I think she like me back too as I can feel ALOT of sexual tension between us, we get closer to each other and break that physical barrier rather easily. This is my problem, I really want to kiss her but it never feels like the right time. The conversations never really stop so theres never a chance to take it a little more seriously and every time I want to go in for that first kiss the sexual tension almost gets in the way making it feel uncomfortable and a little forced. What i’m asking for is how to go about this, is this normal for a first kiss to be so hard to obtain?
    I don’t need it to lead to sex, I just want it to happen naturally but i’m afraid that if I don’t kiss her the next time we hangout she’ll loose interest. Am I just choking, should i just go for it?
    any advice, tips, or personnel experiences would be most appreciated.

    Ebra82
    Ebra82
    Participant
    July 22, 2014 at 1:11 pm #57947

    Keep trying

    runtothesun
    runtothesun
    Participant
    July 23, 2014 at 8:36 am #58031

    No, first kisses usually aren’t this difficult. I think you’re more concerned with finding “the perfect moment” than actually kissing her. I say just stop worrying and do it


    jt94
    Participant
    July 24, 2014 at 2:06 am #58091

    Well man ik its easyer said then done. But my first kiss well it sucked but I went for it. But when me and my ex first started dating well actually rite before we started dating we were laying there watching tv and I went for a kiss and we started making out. It was just kinda a random moment but in the monent it worked and lead to other things later down the road. Entil we broke up.. but go for it man agein easyer daid then done