She approached me but wants to hang out as friends now

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She approached me but wants to hang out as friends now

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    arnab
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    February 18, 2017 at 9:49 am #127532
    She approached me but wants to hang out as friends now

    There’s this girl in my college fest organisation who worked with me this year. There were certain instances in the past year where she directly complimented about my hair and my looks in many informal outings before. I used to take it as a compliment and do nothing. Just a week before valentines’ day, we all were celebrating a common friend’s birthday when suddenly in the middle of group conversations, she says she wants to go out with me and date me. I remained numb at that time as i didn’t expect it. After giving it a bit of thinking, I asked her out on WhatsApp on V-Day (we were busy with college exams). She postponed it to next week due to exams. Yesterday, when i asked her to suggest places, she says even college canteen works as she just wants to hangout as friends. I feel depressed as she was the one who had shown interest before and now gives such reply. What should be my strategy in the next meeting?

    • This topic was modified 8 months ago by  arnab.