She bailed out on me, did she just give me a line or was she truthful?

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She bailed out on me, did she just give me a line or was she truthful?

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    magnusalpha
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    November 7, 2014 at 8:25 pm #67230
    She bailed out on me, did she just give me a line or was she truthful?

    Ok, first, I wanted to say I know there are many other threads like this, but I really wanted to write this to get it off my chest a bit. I dated an awesome woman for 2 months, we clicked on all levels. It was going amazingly well, she even started saying “I love you” and “I’m in love with you,” things like that. I met her family, she would stay over after work and go to work from my place the next day. All those great little things.

    Then she canceled 2 dates in a row, saying she was depressed and wanted to stay in bed. after that her text messages and replies became shorter, and far less often than when she used txt me throughout her work day. I said “would you like to do something this weekend?” and no reply for 12 hours. So I sent the “it seems like you don’t want to hang out anymore, I just want to know the situation, I thought we had something good going on.” She replied “I’m so sorry, you’re amazing. I need to sort my life out before a relationship.” (continued…)

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    magnusalpha
    magnusalpha
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    November 7, 2014 at 8:35 pm #67233

    When we were dating, she had told me about her ex, she had lived with him for 6 months, they got in a bad argument. He moved his stuff out and left. Then some point after I started seeing her, he had called her at work and apologized. I have my guess that she probably went back to him… no matter how she felt about me, she had been involved with him longer, and she probably still loved him, and then he pops back up and apologizes. I wish I knew if that was the case, and she was trying to spare my feelings, or if she’s really out there trying to sort her stuff out. I wish I could know if she’d ever contact me again, or just forget about me. I left a final text, not intending to pursue her (which could push her away or make her think I’m needy) it basically said “I dont’ know your situation but I’d like to see you, txt me if you want to get a drink or something down the road.”

    m47131
    m47131
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    November 10, 2014 at 8:32 am #67267

    I would back off bro. If she wants you she’ll come around. It does sound like there is another dude in the picture and it’s probably her ex. Start dating other women and stop texting her. She’ll start wondering what happened to you if you ignore her. Even if she does come around I would be skeptical.

    Good luck.

    MiB0809
    MiB0809
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    November 10, 2014 at 2:55 pm #67380

    I’m dealing with the same situation. Unfortunately I think it’s time to look for someone new. I feel like it’s an excuse a lot of the time.