she likes me but i am screwed up HELP

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she likes me but i am screwed up HELP

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  • steven
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    March 19, 2017 at 2:33 am #130492
    she likes me but i am screwed up HELP

    i met a girl 3 years ago and she really like me , she wanted to go out with me many time and i kept postponing

    1) i went once after 6 month and while driving her back to home she holded my hand in the ca as if she is telling me stop the car to have fun but i continued driving normally

    2) i went another time after 4 month and she was giving me the “looks” but the night was normal i didnt do anything

    so got upset and didnt talk to me anymore for a long time , 2 month ago i called her and told her i want to see you and she accepted and we went to have a dinner ( i am sure in her mind she was thinking of more than a dinner ) after we finished dinner i drove her to her home.

    since then she is not talking to me nor replying to my sms/whatsapp msg even tho on whatsapp she is viewing them ( they turn blue )

    i am asking her to go out 1 more time but getting no replies !!!

    i know i was my mistake not to give her what she wants but how can i fix it now and go with her at least once ??

    Kielbasa
    Kielbasa
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    March 19, 2017 at 4:46 am #130493

    If you contacted her many times even try to sound sincere and apologize in the messages, even after simply calling then I am certain it’s likely it’s over. Maybe send a meaningful message through whatsapp so at least you know she’s listening and try to get your point across and ask for one more chance. Also explain your behavior or else she will think that you don’t even recognize your own problems and will just continue the cycle, so clarify what had gone wrong and what can you do better for her at the next chance. Even about a week of an attempt, you should move.

    JoannaB623
    JoannaB623
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    March 19, 2017 at 10:14 am #130499

    It sounds like you don’t want the relationship to move as quickly as she does, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Consider telling her that you want to take things slow, and if she’s not happy with that, then unfortunately it probably won’t work out. Good Luck.