She needs time to choose between me or another guy.

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She needs time to choose between me or another guy.

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    Pixelanian
    Pixelanian
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    July 31, 2015 at 11:11 pm #83476
    She needs time to choose between me or another guy.

    So here’s the situation: I’m in love with this girl (lets call her C) that I’ve known for about two years now. C’s told me that she loves me too. Only problem is apparently she also has feelings for her ex. Something you should know: her ex (aka first ever real love) was an asshole to her. He treated her like shite almost everyday of their relationship. The phrase that comes to mind in this situation is stockholm syndrome, although it’s not quite that. C told me she needs time to decide who she should date, either me or him. I already asked a friend from school what I should do about this, but I haven’t really gotten advice from my friend yet. I cannot just be expected to believe that her ex, having moved on three separate times from C, just magically has real feelings for her again. If she chooses him, I can tell you she’s going to be miserable again, because that’s how it was before. What should I do about this situation? What should I do if she picks her ex again?


    spiderjohn420
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    August 25, 2015 at 8:21 am #84685

    I would bounce. I’ve found myself in a similar situation twice in the past. Neither situation ended well for me.