She's been ignoring me a few times

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She's been ignoring me a few times

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  • toffee1878
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    April 7, 2017 at 8:28 am #132444
    She's been ignoring me a few times

    Basically I’ve spoke to a girl for 3 months 24/7 and we both agreed to wait till she’s ready because she’s just came out of a 5 year relationship about 5/6 months ago but last week I tried to force it and was asking her to go out when I shouldn’t because I knew she wasnt ready yet and this lead to an arguement and now she said she doesn’t want to speak as much anymore because she said I came on too strong and needy trying to force it, I have spoke to her a few times since and it just isn’t the same and she’s ignored me a few times too, should I give her a break and not message her for a week? And then see how it is from there, I really don’t want to lose this girl


    morescarben4
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    April 7, 2017 at 9:10 am #132451

    If you dont lose her, do everything you can and don’t let it happen!

    SHOKH
    SHOKH
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    April 7, 2017 at 10:14 am #132493

    just fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuucccccccccckkkkkkkkkkk her, and she will keep calm I am serious!


    toffee1878
    Participant
    April 7, 2017 at 4:06 pm #132456

    I’m going to not contact her for two weeks and message then and see what happens


    toffee1878
    Participant
    April 7, 2017 at 4:06 pm #132453

    It’s happened once before back in February when she said she didn’t want to talk again, but then after a few days it was back to normal talking 24/7 I’m still worried I’ll lose her this time though


    Lonelyman23
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    April 7, 2017 at 4:14 pm #132617

    No contact

    Reare
    Reare
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    April 9, 2017 at 11:39 am #132663

    hi. Try not to contact her for a while, maybe she’s not ready


    alexanthoo
    Participant
    April 9, 2017 at 6:44 pm #132671

    I agree, try not contacting her for a while. Just give her a lil space


    itsmelili
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    April 10, 2017 at 1:57 pm #132735

    i think u should keep calm! u worry way too much


    bmartin655
    Participant
    April 11, 2017 at 10:42 am #132827
    Reply To: She's been ignoring me a few times

    Just give her a break. Girls don’t like a guy that comes on too strong I can tell you that from experience. It just pushes them away. Give her a couple weeks then try and contact her again


    fastcare
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    April 12, 2017 at 12:26 am #132919
    Reply To: She's been ignoring me a few times

    wait for her rep


    jj91
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    April 15, 2017 at 4:05 pm #133366
    Reply To: She's been ignoring me a few times

    just give her a little time and when you contact her again just maybe not 24/7. keep it to a short thing daily just to let her know you’re thinking of her, but just don’t be clingy and text her ALL day everyday.


    andrewimecs
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    April 15, 2017 at 5:05 pm #133367
    Reply To: She's been ignoring me a few times

    I would definitely apply some no contact. See if she really likes you and cut all communication with her for a little bit of time. Ex’s do it all the time to give each other space and half the time get back together because they realize how much they really love the other one or like them and what not. A little time away would not hurt considering you have been talking to her a lot. If anything it will slap her in the face and basically make her realize that you are not texting her anymore and draw attention to you.

    • This reply was modified 2 months, 1 week ago by  andrewimecs.