Should I accept him?

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Should I accept him?

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    kayla556
    kayla556
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    May 11, 2015 at 3:23 am #78706
    Should I accept him?

    We have been friend for five years,I like him but no love. He asked me in relationship with him several days ago, since i don’t have a boyfriend now,should I accept him?


    mjsahu
    Participant
    May 11, 2015 at 10:49 am #78724

    That’s not love, one asked and you go out with him even if you don’t love him. What i think is that, you should know yourself first, what your heart wants. Listen to your heart if it says you should be friend with him, be a friend. Sometimes a good friend is much more than having a girlfriend or boyfriend. As you said he has asked you. If you feel and comfortable and are happy to enjoy his company, then you definitely should go out with. Since you said you are friend with him and known him for five years. I think you know everything about him then. So follow your heart.


    chrisinindy
    Participant
    May 18, 2015 at 9:23 am #79143

    If there is no love and you’ve not thought about it in 5 years then I think he is just not the one for you.

    Be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Don’t pretend or force it. As the above user says – follow your heart.


    jklmnadff7689
    Participant
    May 18, 2015 at 2:34 pm #79218

    You should not accept a relationship with him if you do not feel the same way. He will only be hurt in the end.


    tfx
    Participant
    May 19, 2015 at 10:07 am #79268

    If you feel nothing, it would be boring, don’t you think? I know, the chemistry goes off after few… months, years, but still. I don’t know, for me it is a little bit wierd.


    petera24
    Participant
    May 20, 2015 at 9:41 am #79362

    You don’t need to love a guy to be in a relationship with him. 5 years of being friends is a long time but don’t just decide you should take the next step because he asked. Ask yourself what you like about him. He must be a good friend for him to come at 5 years later to ask what he asked. Like I said before you don’t have to love him to be in a relationship, but there has to be something about him that you like enough to say I don’t want to be just friends. If you don’t have that it is best to keep your friendship. You will only regret you decision later if you didn’t think this through.