Should I ask her out?

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Should I ask her out?

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    ColdBlade97
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    June 21, 2015 at 3:49 pm #81391
    Should I ask her out?

    So there is this girl who is my really good friend. We know each other for about 3 years. Recently I started having feelings for her and I wanted to ask her out. But then we found out she was in love with my best friend for a year and half and he turned her down. It made me doubt if I should ask her out or not? My best friend and her chat all the time so I am confused if he is interested in her or not. What to do?


    ColdBlade97
    Participant
    June 21, 2015 at 3:51 pm #81392

    I would prefer girls answering but I men’s opinion is also welcome. Thanks.


    Anonymous
    June 27, 2015 at 5:35 pm #81700

    Hi,

    Has she hinted that she might have feelings for you as well? Honestly, I wouldn’t pursue it. I feel that if you do, you are the one that is going to end up getting hurt. Why would you want to be someone’s second choice?


    heelsnglamour
    Participant
    June 29, 2015 at 9:57 am #81730

    I don’t think u should. Mainly because things can be a bit awkward considering the mutual friend turned her down. In the end, I don’t see this having a good outcome if you were to ask her out. Someone better will come along & u won’t have any doubts.