Should I ask her out?

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Should I ask her out?

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    JamesSM
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    June 9, 2016 at 10:57 am #102584
    Should I ask her out?

    Okay so I like a girl that I work with.. I’m not sure If I should ask her out as friends just to spend some time together and get to know each over.
    We had a work thing the other week and she offered me a drive home, We seemed to get on really well laughing and stuff! We also had a Christmas event and I’m sure she was looking at me quite a few times. I;m not sure If she likes me or not? She sometimes goes red in the face when she’s around me…

    Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚


    lilyvalley
    Participant
    June 9, 2016 at 1:27 pm #102593

    Aw yeah for sure try to spend some more time with her as friends and get to know her but not too long and then confess your interest in her once you see you’re compatible. Also I have a q’s, a guy w/ a gf asked me to have sushi with him, and we were being friendly, but more like acquaintances, would a guy do this if he wasn’t interested in pursuing something down the line?


    JamesSM
    Participant
    June 9, 2016 at 1:37 pm #102594

    I’m just worried If she doesn’t like me It could become a little awkward! If she say’s no I could blow my chance :/


    lilyvalley
    Participant
    June 9, 2016 at 1:44 pm #102596

    it doesn’t hurt to try, you’re a man, you want a girl, go after her, be friend first and see if you’re vibing then confess. Can you answer my q’s too please


    Confused_one
    Participant
    June 13, 2016 at 7:12 am #102590

    I say go for it!
    But…
    Just realize that you work with her and things can go very bad in those situations if it doesn’t work out.


    JamesSM
    Participant
    June 13, 2016 at 7:13 am #102597

    Yeah I’ll have a look now. Do you think asking face to face would be easier or maybe asking her with a letter? We are both very shy..


    JamesSM
    Participant
    June 13, 2016 at 7:13 am #102599

    Should I ask her face to face or maybe write it down and give it to her? We are both very shy and I don’t want her to feel awkward


    lilyvalley
    Participant
    June 14, 2016 at 11:45 am #103343
    Reply To: Should I ask her out?

    HOw old are you? Definitely no letter lol just come up with an excuse and ask for her number then do it through text ๐Ÿ™‚


    Jfk1996
    Participant
    June 15, 2016 at 9:12 pm #103438

    Okay so I like a girl that I work with.. Iโ€™m not sure If I should ask her out as friends just to spend some time together and get to know each over.
    We had a work thing the other week and she offered me a drive home, We seemed to get on really well laughing and stuff! We also had a Christmas event and Iโ€™m sure she was looking at me quite a few times. I;m not sure If she likes me or not? She sometimes goes red in the face when sheโ€™s around meโ€ฆ

    Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚

    Worth a try man


    Jfk1996
    Participant
    June 15, 2016 at 9:12 pm #103439
    Reply To: Should I ask her out?

    Good point


    Rdusmc86
    Participant
    June 21, 2016 at 4:18 pm #103779
    Reply To: Should I ask her out?

    Asking in person is always better. It shows confidence and you already have signs she likes you.


    EchoFiveSierra83
    Participant
    June 24, 2016 at 7:26 pm #104053
    Reply To: Should I ask her out?

    Be VERY CAREFUL with workplace relationships! Even if you guys are from different departments within the organization. I’ve seen this go from not so good, to total s*** storm.

    brainy
    brainy
    Participant
    June 25, 2016 at 1:14 pm #104061
    Reply To: Should I ask her out?

    I wish my colleague would ask me out ๐Ÿ˜€ Do it!


    AD5063
    Participant
    June 25, 2016 at 11:02 pm #104081
    Reply To: Should I ask her out?

    Go out as friends first!!! If the chemistry is good and you both have a good time then suggest hanging out again but indicate that it will be more of a date then as friends. Then go from there. If she doesn’t want to be more than friends, then it is important that you accept that as her choice and don’t try and force a relationship just continue to be friends. Good luck!

    nmaheshbalan
    nmaheshbalan
    Participant
    June 28, 2016 at 1:48 am #104161
    Reply To: Should I ask her out?

    definitely she is interested with you …just ask very cool for outing …she will get shocked first ..but altast she will be yours

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