Should I Ask Her Out

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Should I Ask Her Out

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    Professor Byzantine
    Professor Byzantine
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    July 11, 2017 at 3:52 pm #141769
    Should I Ask Her Out

    Do I ask out a girl I broke up with? I’ve known her for three years now. We work together. After knowing each other for two years we dated for two months and then I broke it off with her. I did this because I felt it went WAY fast into a couple. I want to day this because I’m sure we were still in the comfort of work zone in how we knew each other. After we broke up and some time passed I’ve seen the real side of her. The one that wasn’t quiet and awkward but is open and wild and a little crazy. That’s the her I wish I’d known at the time.

    Is it right to ask her out?

    lovie4you
    lovie4you
    Participant
    July 11, 2017 at 8:08 pm #141827

    Seriously, if you think she is still interested in you and she would accept your offer by all means ask her out. Just tell her you made a mistake and you really want yo be with her. Good luck.

    ThatYahoGuy
    ThatYahoGuy
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    July 12, 2017 at 4:19 pm #141909

    Only one way to find out? And even if it doesn’t go your way a sincere apology could help lessen some of the regret. Plus at least you can say you tried.


    yogamolly
    Participant
    July 13, 2017 at 3:18 pm #142060

    DO it! What do you have to lose.


    Piscesproblems22
    Participant
    July 13, 2017 at 10:38 pm #142106

    Shoot your shot. She may be indulge you. There’s no harm in trying!


    new1804
    Participant
    July 14, 2017 at 12:52 pm #142152

    My thinking is that try to convince her that this break up was not due to lack of interest in her but rather personal difficulties otherwise she would feel offended.


    paulks2017
    Participant
    July 19, 2017 at 8:10 am #142581

    Yes you should definitely ask her out if you like her. Try and ask in a casual way, maybe for coffee. If she says no, then theres your answer. Simple but straight forward


    boyboi
    Participant
    July 21, 2017 at 1:29 am #142850

    I think it depends y’know if the fear of wondering “what if I had asked her out?” overpowers your fear of asking her in the first place, then you should do it. Be sure to be upfront if you broke things off in the past, I don’t think it’ll look good if you try to act like it never happened, that’s my opinion though. Good luck!