Should I ask her out again?

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Should I ask her out again?

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    Raven99
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    December 1, 2014 at 7:09 am #68395
    Should I ask her out again?

    There is this girl I work with, who I have a major crush on. We chat a couple of times a week and she has never mentioned having a boyfriend. We also go to the same gym. I mentioned the other day that I was going to the gym after work, and then I saw her there. I approached her and asked her what she was doing that night and she said she had no plans. I then asked if she wanted to go for a drink and she said she couldn’t as she only had her gym clothes to wear. She had come straight from work so would have had her work clothes with her. Was she politely knocking me back, or should I ask her out again?

    m47131
    m47131
    Participant
    December 1, 2014 at 6:27 pm #68496

    She didn’t counter offer to meet up at a different time? If not don’t push it, just keep flirting with her and let her come to you. Working with your crush is a bitch.


    SCO
    Participant
    December 1, 2014 at 6:48 pm #68501

    Perhaps allow a small ammount of time to pass, then subtly suggest a meetup again. If she fobs off a second time, I would bail.