Should I ask her to study even though things didn't go according to plan?

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Should I ask her to study even though things didn't go according to plan?

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    E3ZY219
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    February 3, 2017 at 10:46 pm #125714
    Should I ask her to study even though things didn't go according to plan?

    So I am a college senior.

    This quarter, I am attracted to a girl in my philosophy class who I normally don’t sit with in lecture since it is a 300 person lecture hall, but I do see her in my TA section (when there are only 30 students). The problem is that TA sections are only once and a week.

    So anyway, the first day of section we were in the same group so I was able to notice her. The second week, she sat behind me and after finishing our work, we started talking and learning about each other. The third week, she sat right next to me and I said hi to her but we got split into different groups, and didn’t talk much. However I caught her making eye contact with me twice.

    I later added her on facebook to ask a question about class, but she never replied or accepted my friend request. This was a dumb move by me, and probably weird as well.

    Anyway, I want to ask her if she wants to study with me for an exam we are going to have, but I can only ask in section. Should I still do it?


    E3ZY219
    Participant
    February 3, 2017 at 10:54 pm #125715

    Obviously I want to do more than studying. I would have asked her in person before, but I don’t see her enough!


    jillianfrances
    Participant
    February 4, 2017 at 12:09 am #125717

    I don’t think it was weird for you to add her on Facebook, if she was talking to you in class and making eye contact with you I’m surprised she didn’t accept it honestly. You should definitely still ask her if she wants to study with you though, that way it’s not like directly asking to go on a date and she might be more willing to do it/ more comfortable! 🙂