Should I ask my gf to come out for me?

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Should I ask my gf to come out for me?

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    WhitneyR
    WhitneyR
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    April 12, 2013 at 3:24 pm #28506
    Should I ask my gf to come out for me?

    My gf isn’t out and I really care about her. It’s been a couple months and I keep pretending to be her gay best friend around her family. Is it rude to want her to do that for me?

    She says she loves me and wants the world to know how wonderful we are together but she won’t even come out to her parents. think I should be the one to push her in the right direcion? It’s frustrating to lie to so many people. I dont’ know what to do!!!

    SandraDee
    SandraDee
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    April 16, 2013 at 6:01 pm #28950

    Aww it’s ok. Be careful not to force her. See if she can come out to a friend and tell her you’ll be by her side. Maybe like a practice and see if how she does..if she’s comfortable coming out with someone who won’t pressure her like her parents, maybe she’ll warm up to the idea!

    mixerz77
    mixerz77
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    April 17, 2013 at 4:30 pm #28995

    Pressuring someone to come out is as bad as peer pressure to do drugs. Don’t taint her memories with an unwilling approach to gulp down her fears and tell her family. There’ll be a time, like when you were unsure, of when to finally come out. She’ll feel confident in herself that nothing can take her down. Until she gets there, she only needs support from you.