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    kcmay
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    August 9, 2014 at 9:44 pm #59102
    should I contact him

    Sorry in advance for my long post but I just want to be clear.

    So I met this guy online over a year ago. We started as friends, then best friends, into a long distance couple. We never met during this time.

    I would say he is the perfect guy for me, but there were some issues
    We live about 7,000+ miles away from each other. Not knowing when we would met was really bothering me. I’m in school, and he recently got a job.
    He is very family oriented, I wouldn’t want to be the reason he leaves his family.

    Long story short… I told him I think we should take a break and he immediately said “alright, as you wish”. I understand that he was shocked, sad, and hurt but is that response normal? I wasn’t surprised he said that because he is very understanding and respects my decisions, but if you love someone don’t you fight for them. Or is that the western way of thinking? Maybe his way of showing love was letting me go.

    I want to contact him sooo badly. When is the best time to contact him?

    vitacie01
    vitacie01
    Participant
    August 10, 2014 at 8:49 pm #59119

    ok…Long story short… I told him I think we should take a break and he immediately said “alright, as you wish”. I understand that he was shocked, sad, and hurt but is that response normal? I wasn’t surprised he said that because he is very understanding and respects my decisions, but if you love someone don’t you fight for them. Or is that the western way of thinking? Maybe his way of showing love was letting me go.


    breakfreenfly
    Participant
    August 16, 2014 at 1:25 am #59499

    If you miss him, call him!


    Ryan Lueders
    Participant
    August 16, 2014 at 5:03 am #59502

    I read the title and that is all I need to know. Boyfriend and girlfriend need to talk. Unless he told you not to call him you need to call him. If you want to make progress in a relationship you need to talk. If you don’t say anything things will stay how they are forever…