Should I End the Relationship?

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Should I End the Relationship?

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    cannoteven
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    December 18, 2014 at 4:08 pm #69439
    Should I End the Relationship?

    I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost two years. It’s been online this whole time and we haven’t met in real life yet, but we are planning to do so this upcoming summer. I love him, but I’ve felt like I’ve been in and out of love with him for our entire relationship. He’s an amazingly kind person and we don’t fight often, but I also don’t know if I can imagine myself waiting another two and a half years for him to move to Canada (where I am). I also feel exhausted talking to him sometimes and we repeat a lot of the same conversations over and over, to the point that my phone can pretty much fill in my responses for me. I’ve spoken to him about this before, but he just gets upset and says he likes how things are.
    I feel like I might just be with him still because I’m scared to hurt him, and also that I’m a creature of habit and find it hard to change what’s normal in my life; what would I do if he was gone? Then I worry I’ll regret leaving him, or that it’ll be a bad decision.


    Panoramix
    Participant
    December 19, 2014 at 10:44 pm #69496

    Hard to say, Try to consult with relationship adviser when it is about so long relationship.