Should I fight for her

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Should I fight for her

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    hopelessromantic012
    Participant
    July 3, 2016 at 12:11 am #104349
    Should I fight for her

    This girl, I really like her. I hate the fact that I feel so ugly when I don’t have any makeup on. It’s pathetic. All these beauty standards slapping females (AND males) in the face. It’s a struggle to love myself when I dont fit that stereotype. And when a man looks at me and tells me I’m beautiful I can’t believe him. **** beauty standards.”


    hopelessromantic012
    Participant
    July 3, 2016 at 12:16 am #104350

    I message her this
    -Hey Shelby, don’t feel that way. You’re beautiful with or with makeup. And idk if you want to hear this but, I kinda used to have a crush on you in high school. Lol
    she asked really and why? and I said Because your smart, funny, cute, and your really ambitious. Who wouldn’t want that in a girl? And sometimes you can be shy, but I think that’s really sweet. And I know you have self doubt, hell even I have it. But once you push through that you can have a great future. she told me thank you and it means a lot to her. then I asked her Ah, ok. Well I know this is out of the blue. And if you’re seeing anyone, I don’t mean any disrespect when I ask you this… But, do I have a chance of being with you? and she told me she was seeing someone. 😔 No, problem. I wish you the best, and I hope that they make you happy. If you ever need anything I’m there👌🏻. she told me thanks and it’s the same for me. I feel like I didn’t say enough for her to even think about me in that way.


    hopelessromantic012
    Participant
    July 3, 2016 at 12:16 am #104351

    I know this is wrong but I feel like I should break them up. should I tell her that I love her? I feel like I can love her better than the persons she’s with. should I wait for them to break up? they haven’t been together that long. what should I do?


    stein
    Participant
    July 18, 2016 at 11:00 am #105587

    You need to speak to a professional. You’ve got to get your self respect together, strong, etc. before you play the dating game or any game that involves humans.