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TorimyersParticipantNovember 5, 2017 at 1:38 am #155099
So it starts back when I was dating my ex (who was a guy), and at this point in my life I hadn’t come out to myself yet so I had feelings for both sexes. She was friends with my ex from high school, she added me on facebook when we started dating because we both at the time had men in the military. Well come to find out we have a lot of things in common and just hit it off as friends. I regret this part to a degree because I got emotionally attached to this girl while I was still with my ex. At this time my ex and Is’ relationship started to go south (and not because of her) and she was becoming more than I ever thought she would. This is the part I regret is because we were still together and I was talking to her but I don’t regret meeting him so I could find her. She becomes my world, we talk all day and never run out of things to say, I say I love you, and so on. I want to mary her, buy a house on by beach for her, let her build her bakery, and just spend my life with her.
TorimyersParticipantNovember 5, 2017 at 1:43 am #155100
But she started dating a guy which I knew about and I think it’s because she too was feeling how I was when it came to which sex to I prefer. Well she goes off and marries. the guy. My heart it broken because after this we had a long talk about who does she really want to be with and she said she’d run away with me. I know timing of this sucks. But I don’t think she has the strength to get out of it because the husband it very verbally abusive towards her. I don’t want to give up on her because 1) I can’t find out there in the dating world a girl for me, 2) I want to still be waiting for her when she does, and 3) she just my everything. Help?
desperatelygayParticipantJanuary 29, 2018 at 10:53 am #163683
Honestly, waiting is both a good and bad idea, you can pick a sainting time for about 2 months max, because after that, you’re just wasting your time, if she truly feels for you, she’ll come, but only if you talk about this seriously and make a plan or something. The abusive husband thing is kinda sketchy, you could try to defend her but I don’t want you to get hurt. Just try to talk and if the time she tells you to wait is longer that idk half a year, then it’s not worth it. You could build a whole new life in that time, and mourning is just a waste. Hope it helped, good luck!!
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