should I get just get over it? or tell her family and friends?


should I get just get over it? or tell her family and friends?

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    February 18, 2015 at 12:22 am #73645
    should I get just get over it? or tell her family and friends?

    a couple of months ago. I was asking this girl I have a crush on (lets call her ky) questions on anonymously. after months asking ky questions and getting to know her, I fell for her.. hard. since I’m not good at expressing myself in person, I told ky I would write her a note how I felt about her and she said she would do the same after she read it. On December 12, 2014 she got hit by a drunk driver as she was walking to her car. I feel like crap because I did not give her the note, reveal that it was me, and that I loved her. she changed my life in so many ways. Because of her I’m going back to college, I found myself as a person, and I have a new lust for life, it just sucks that I never got to share this with her and tell her that I wanted her in my life. I feel like I should give the note to her parents or her friends. or maybe write a note explaining how their friend/child change my life and that I’m forever thankful for her. a part of me feels like i need to do it.

    April 21, 2015 at 10:19 pm #77697

    I think you should reach out to her and let her know. Maybe not her family because they didn’t share your experience with her. & she may be happy to hear how she had an impact on your life.

    April 24, 2015 at 3:25 am #77812

    I think you should definitely give her the letter. It would be good for her to know how she made you feel, and who knows, maybe something can come of this!

    August 9, 2015 at 11:14 pm #83794

    She died people. She can’t give it to her. If someone has impacted you in such a way that it changed your life then you need to make it known. I am truly sorry for your loss and I’m sure she knows how you feel ?