should i give up on her?

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should i give up on her?

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    luffykid321
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    October 18, 2014 at 2:35 am #66151
    should i give up on her?

    i recently started college last semester and i meet this REALLY amazing girl that was into generally the some things i liked. cartoons, anime, online games, ifunny(iphone app) and then i started liking her. when i got the courage to ask her out she told me there was another guy that “there is sorta something going on” but he is supper quite by what she told me and he can be kinda of a douche and its been going on for 1-2 years. She is supper nice and i dont know if i should mention it but shes a Jehovah witness and im totally ok with that. and i was just wondering if i should keep trying to ask her out, or just give up on my feeling for this REALLY amazing girl.
    i can give updates so ask any questions for more information thanks guys.
    p.s i still talk to her even after i asked her on a date which is totally different then anything i have ever done.


    Woodstock1987
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    October 19, 2014 at 1:48 pm #66169

    Dude, best thing you can do is go live your life. Don’t worry about chasing her, but don’t be rude and never talk to her. If she’s really into you she’ll come to you. The only thing you did now was let her know that you’re interested in her and it’s not necessarily a bad thing, but don’t get hung up on trying to convince her that you like her. Give her some space and let her come to the decision herself. If you press to hard or keep bringing it up, it’ll only scare her away.

    Just play it cool, don’t run, but don’t pressure her and don’t worry about making it happen right now. If you’re looking for something long term you gotta let her get comfortable around you.

    kerry
    kerry
    Participant
    October 20, 2014 at 2:31 am #66200

    Don’t pressure her and don’t worry about making it happen right now.


    Anonymous
    October 20, 2014 at 11:14 am #66236

    Just go with the flow. If its supposed to be that way it will be. Just be you and if she likes that then it will all work out. If not then just focus on school and move on with life


    luffykid321
    Participant
    October 20, 2014 at 5:47 pm #66274

    Dude, best thing you can do is go live your life. Don’t worry about chasing her, but don’t be rude and never talk to her. If she’s really into you she’ll come to you. The only thing you did now was let her know that you’re interested in her and it’s not necessarily a bad thing, but don’t get hung up on trying to convince her that you like her. Give her some space and let her come to the decision herself. If you press to hard or keep bringing it up, it’ll only scare her away.

    Just play it cool, don’t run, but don’t pressure her and don’t worry about making it happen right now. If you’re looking for something long term you gotta let her get comfortable around you.

    thanks you man, i tend to become to emotional involve and always over estimate things, i think your right on giving her some space because if we talk about that even more it will scare her, so i guess ill just be a good friend and give her some space. thank you once again