Should i go out with him?

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Should i go out with him?

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    sasha
    sasha
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    December 25, 2016 at 8:53 am #121034
    Should i go out with him?

    I moved to a new city 3 months ago and recently joined a gym. I met this guy, he made the first move last week and he invited me over to his house for christmas (today). I said okay, although I wasn’t entirely sure if i should go or not.
    I am in Spain and speak very little Spanish and his english is very minimal. Anyway today morning i apologized and told him that i couldn’t come today and that i hope he has a merry christmas.
    I did that because i don’t feel comfortable going to his house the first time we hang out. This is because guys mostly make a move when i go to their places and I don’t want that. Like i don’t mind a kiss but nothing more. I am not looking for dating, i do not mind being friends, i don’t have friends in this new city. I don’t want anything to happen to make things awkward between us at the gym.
    At the same time i am really lonely and sick of being alone all the time, i am just scared of him making a move on me..

    Should i go ?