Should I initiate contact first after being away for a while?

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Should I initiate contact first after being away for a while?

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    marcelac
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    June 3, 2015 at 4:19 pm #80114
    Should I initiate contact first after being away for a while?

    I’ve had some good dates with his man for 2-3 months. We used to talk to each other every day.
    Last month he went out of town for a week, and throughout his vacation he continued messaging me and we exchange conversation every day as before. Before he came back from his trip, I also went on vacation. I texted him to wish him a good drive back home before I left. The hotel I stayed at has wifi, so I sent emails to him every so often when I’m free. He replied like before and we chat sporadically throughout the time I was away.
    His last email to me says that he will be on business trip this coming week (when I return).
    My last email to him was when I’m flying back saying I’m about to board the plane and asked how long his business trip is. He never responded. I can’t tell if he’s giving me time to settle down, or he’s busy with business, or is he just trying to ignore me now. Should I send him a text/call him up? It’s been about 4~5 days.


    Uyskl
    Participant
    June 6, 2015 at 8:47 pm #80342

    I think you should go for it, you have nothing to lose really. He sounds like a busy guy, it’s very possible that he was just wrapped up with work and forgot to email you back.

    Badass
    Badass
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    June 8, 2015 at 8:35 am #80371

    It’s hard to maintain a long distance relationship when 2 people are traveling. You should contact him, give him a call leave a message, be sincere, say you miss him. Then wait and see what he does. Don’t message him a lot. Best of luck!


    Anonymous
    June 14, 2015 at 10:55 am #80859

    Go for it! You don’t always have to play hard to get, y’know.