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anonymousgirl1000ParticipantJanuary 25, 2018 at 4:14 am #163342
I’m 19, he’s 26. We met through mutual friends, but I’ve never seen him in person since he lives far away. We talk often, but sometimes it takes him forever to respond. It didn’t bother me until I noticed that he continues to post on social media and will even like my Ig pictures or watch my Snapchat stories. Still, I don’t worry too much because he does ALWAYS get back to me eventually. Our conversations are ongoing, so I never really have to reach out to him. He does try to keep the conversation going, so I’m not doing all the talking. English isn’t his first language, so he does struggle. Texting can get old though, so I mentioned FaceTime to him. He told me that he was in a meeting for work and couldn’t. He also mentions that most of his meetings are on that particular day. With his line of work, I could believe it. I just brushed it off and said that we could do it another time. He only responded with an emoji, so I just assumed that he just isn’t that into me.
carolineroberts512ParticipantJanuary 26, 2018 at 10:25 am #163500
Maybe you should try setting up a different time for FaceTime. Men tend to get really focused and preoccupied, especially whenever it comes to business. If he’s staying in contact with you consistently (every day or few days) then that says a lot. (:
Jb1993ParticipantJanuary 27, 2018 at 2:14 am #163586
If he’s anything like me, he honestly forgets to text back sometimes. Don’t overthink it. Try to figure out a way to bring it up without it sounding like an acusation
Anonymous8ParticipantJanuary 28, 2018 at 2:08 am #163615
Maybe he’s just really busy. Just give him some time
SoraeParticipantJanuary 28, 2018 at 2:58 am #163617
wouldnt over think things! just let it play out
kaitlynlily6ParticipantJanuary 28, 2018 at 1:39 pm #163624
Observe some more and try a different schedule to do Face Time. I can see he’s making an effort to reach out to you so that’s a good sign. Men are just sometimes too lazy to reply to messages and do face to face chats or are most of the time preoccupied (unlike women, most men can’t do multitasking — LOL).
ch1910ParticipantJanuary 28, 2018 at 10:05 pm #163631
Don’t over think things, maybe he is just busy.
primoParticipantJanuary 29, 2018 at 6:44 am #163635
since it’s just an online thing he can cut you off if he’s not interested so as long as he’s replying he must be interested in you so keep trying
wisconsinretireeParticipantJanuary 29, 2018 at 8:59 am #163630
His English is probably not good enough for him to feel comfortable on FaceTime. With text messaging he can even lookup words or use an English translation application,
anonymousgirl1000ParticipantJanuary 30, 2018 at 12:42 am #163788
@wisconsinretiree That crossed my mind too. Being billingual myself, there are times when it’s frustrating to communicate in the other language and I’m not always comfortable taking to people who don’t know any English at all. I always feel like I do much better with texting.
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