Should i just give up on these local girls that i know or keep waiting ?

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Should i just give up on these local girls that i know or keep waiting ?

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  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
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    ryansingle
    ryansingle
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    February 7, 2015 at 2:41 pm #72827
    Should i just give up on these local girls that i know or keep waiting ?

    since I’m new here i’ll have to try and explain things as best I can , since you don’t know the whole situation or much about me . I’m from a small town and there isn’t really a lot of dating options here . a couple years ago I meet these girls who at time would of been in there early 20’s and still in college , where is I had just finished school and back home looking for work , so I was a bit older than them . I never really dated any of them or had sex , but we did get to know each other fairly well and hung out at several local bars on multiple occasions. there was one specific girl from this group I had tried to date but things never really worked out and eventually last summer she found a new boyfriend although it might be more of a long distance relationship as I don’t think he lives around here . the other girl in group that I know well , we still talked and such last summer but she’s gone back off to school and this time in a city even further away and I don’t hear anything


    recips
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    February 8, 2015 at 7:42 pm #72854

    I wouldn’t hold all your eggs in one basket pal, keep the conversation live with her still but without sounding too keen, so a conversation every 2-3 days should be adequate. Start talking to other girls and socialising and let this girl see you doing that even if what you are doing is purely for this reason without making it obvious. then you will make yourself a challenge and add value to yourself for this girl to want to pursue you and will notice very quickly if she starts showing more interest in you and you can then play off that and see where things go, if she doesn’t seem to care of notice then you quickly know not to waste your time waiting and nip it in the bud.

    All the best bro

    ryansingle
    ryansingle
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    February 9, 2015 at 8:52 am #72828

    to continue I don’t really here anything from them , the one I tried to add to twitter but she wouldn’t even add me or reply and other one I had tried to message on facebook but never heard anything back . they do however talk to me if they see me at local pub or other bars and we seem to get along there . if there back home for weekend or during summer we seem to have more of a connection and do talk and I have bought drinks for the one girl some nights . I just don’t know if there is any hope in terms of dating either of these girls or other girls from this social group or if I’m just wasting my time ? if they had really wanted to date me wouldn’t something had happened by now ? it seems like this has been going on for a while ? do they just see me as a friend at this point ? and other guys there more interested in dating ?


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